Some things Raven told me that I need to remember:

1) You need to let go of the past. She had NO idea how true this rang with me. Alex-I need to let him go. I need to let all of my guilt go with my parents and their deaths. I have to let it all go. Easier said than done.
2) Something else: she told me that I have to set my brain so that it's set to receive instead of just give give give, which is what I am so used to. I tried this tactic the night Tammy and I played Bingo up at Tulalip, and along with the money spell I cast the day before it was able to bring in enough money (Tammy won, not me) to cover her trip to California for the dog shows. I was so happy to be able to help her. It was empowering to know that it worked.

I need to learn and follow these life lessons.